Wala lang... Naalala kolang si Lolita X

This would guide you on **how to control your
emotions** towards your
better-half, friends, officemates and all the people
around you.
The rules of practicing 'ugaling langit, ugaling
kaaya-aya':

> #1* Ang naunang magalit ang may karapatang
magalit. Pag naunahan ka
na ng galit niya, tumahimik ka na lang muna.

> #2* Walang taong nag-aaway mag-isa*. Pag
hindi kayo sumagot o pumatol,
titigil din daw ang taong nakikipag- away sa inyo.

> #3* Ang taong galit, "bingi". If someone is angry,
wala raw
pinakikinggan, so, don't try to explain and fight
back. Hindi ka niya iintindihin dahil wala siyang
naririnig kundi ang sarili nya.

> #4* Ang taong galit, "abnoy". Ayon sa pastor,
Biblical daw ito... because the Lord said when He
was crucified, "Father, patawarin mo sila dahil
hindi nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa." Modern
term for these kinds of people are "abnoys", so
you better not get angry para huwag kang
matawag na abnoy.
You should also know and realize that the
persons who make your day bad are "jewels",
because you need them* for you to mature*.
Hangga't andyan daw sila at kinaiinisan mo, ibig
sabihin, immature ka pa.

God will not take away those people; it's for you to
take away your bad
feelings towards them. You'll know na "mature" ka
na pag dumating 'yung time na hindi ka na naiinis
sa mga taong ito because you have learned to
accept them and to have patience with them.

> #5 Finally, the best part of this is to tell
yourself
na, because of
this person, "I will grow & become mature," and
that DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA
MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD